This is a great book to give to someone struggling or it is a great book if you are struggling with the way that so-called-Christians are acting. It is really easy to get caught up with how unChristian people act. This book is truly a new way of living. Even for those who haven't been hurt by a Christian. But chances are, everyone will be hurt by a Christian at some point in their life. There are some points that the author shows and proves in this book. The first is that we need to be Jesus followers and not so caught up in being rule regulators. Secondly that we shouldn't get so caught up in religious performance, this doesn't show how Christian or not that you are. And also to remember to show God's grace. I really like this book. I hope you give it a chance, you'll find it to be helpful in your own life and maybe be able to give it to someone else who needs it too.